“Go make something of yourself.” “Figure out who you are.” “What do you want to do with your life?”
At some point, every college student hears these phrases & questions. For some, the answers & solutions may come fairly easy; For the majority, they create a fear-stricken panic that they are missing something that everyone else is discovering.
Telling a college student that the years in which they obtain a bachelors degree are also the years in which they will “find themselves”, has always irked me. We want our students to “find themselves”, so that they will be...